Where there’s a will there’s a way … (so long as you keep yourself safe)
Forgive the preamble but when I first got Pie (19 years ago!) he was just like this! I remember saying to Monty I’d somehow ‘acquired’ this 15hh coloured pony (long story) but what was I going to do with him? And he said ‘the horse will tell you’. Bit woo, and I remember also stating it was a non-negotiable that this coloured pony would come on tour with us because I didn’t want to leave him behind. Monty was perfectly happy about this, but again left it up to me, what could he do in a demo? In those early days it was just me leading this (very expressive) little horse round a hastily put together obstacle course. What was particularly good was it was very relatable to the audience. It actually developed into what is now called Horse Agility, although we called it Spook Busting then.
We did 7 demos on that tour and he went from super spooky to old hand. It was onwards and upwards from then on!
I totally appreciate that dealing with a horse that spooks and bolts can be challenging. Also, that not everyone is able to go on tour with Monty Roberts to help their horse overcome these fears! However … with patience and consistent training and I’d suggest a little help from your friends, I think there’s every chance you’ll be able to get your horse calm and safe on rides. Here’s what I’d do:
Start with the Problem Solving Procedure (as outlined in the IH Online Horse Psychology Course)
Start at the beginning. Firm foundations and all that. What’s going on? I’d look at the possible influences of pain, feed, exercise, environment, training and how the rider might be feeling and dealing with this anxious horse.
While you’re still in the training stage, if your horse is safe to ride out in company I wouldn’t go out on my own for the time being to avoid the issues at this stage. If your horse is nervous and the other horse has to go first, then ask the other rider if you can go back and forth past the ‘scary object’ a couple more times, finish with everyone’s pulse rate low.
Meanwhile, back at the ranch …